This is part of a comment I received several months ago when I was still in the middle of my application to come to NL. The comment was written by a foreigner who says she's been living in NL for 10 years.
Now that I read it again, I understand what she means. Although I know some very nice Dutch people, I have encountered some 'bad seeds' from her description so far, which unfortunately seems to apply more to the female side of the country.
Sense of entitlement
Of course, I haven't met the majority of Dutch girls yet, but if out of 10, I see or experience that 3 behave in the manner above, that is already too many.
However, I'm still researching this, and I hope to prove myself wrong by meeting nicer people in the coming weeks through out-of-office classes, mutual friends and so on. I do know some very nice people, but it's hard to focus on the good when you experience some badness regularly.
If anyone has any comment or experience with more than one Dutch person in NL, I'm really open to hearing it to find out more about this.